Sunday, March 2, 2008

seeking wedding advice

hi friends--i have questions:
if i have to have my numbers to my caterer by may 14, BY WHEN should i have people rsvp? i know i probably have to give people a certain amount of time, plus then enough time for the late responders. HELP! I need a pretty immediate answer, because i don't think about stuff good enuf sometimes.
i can't get my invites unless i'm lucky until april 11, so please tell me that's enough time.
pleasepleaseplease.


also, this weekend i lost my phone, but a nice man recovered it and called my mom. rock on! kinda helped when today is the kind of day where you just want to sleep and mope with the crappy rain and no sun.

although my best girls and mom are planning my bridal shower, and we all had breakfast together and that was fun! i heart the good earth restaurant.

lots of dancing and drinks this weekend. friday night was a girls night out dancing. it was so much fun, that i could barely walk by the end of the night because my feet hurt so badly (this also made most of us feel old--we were all feeling the pain by the end of the night.) but it felt so good to get out, shake the booty, laugh, and dance with my girls. we'll miss the departure of our friend m, who's moving to sweden in a mere two weeks (actually, less). :(
last night was found otu about me's birthday party which was also very fun! thanks for the guac, ang! she rallied even though she broke a bowl and needed stitches on her hand right before the party!

ok. that's a pretty lame update but all i can manage right now. i ahve a million things to do before bed.

looooove yall.

5 comments:

wan said...

if you can kick ass and get those invitations out within days of receiving them, you should be okay. i personally would put a response date of 5/5/08 and then start calling the very next day. you're good! you can do it!

that was quite a nice man! most people wouldn't bother. :|

Nanette said...

Ditto Wan on the date!

Anonymous said...

i agree on the date. then, if you haven't heard by the 6th, you can call up the delinquents. i think you'll be fine.
-ang

Jane Johnson said...

That sounds good to me too...maybe even the 2nd. Be prepared to call people...cause people are super bad about rsvping.

Yay for the weekend. I got to see you twice, that never happens:)

P.S. I can barely walk now.

R said...

I hope your date dilemma was resolved. On the late freight, but I think 5/5ish would be fine. Most people know by now whether or not they're going to make it to Hawaii so it should be fairly easy for them to reply quickly. With that said, be prepared to call the slackers. ;)